If I fail more often than you, I win!
If I fail more often than you, I win!I have written before about the importance of becoming an epic failure and how this is a fundamental part of becoming an epic success.
I was cleaning out some of my old file cabinets today and came across my PA school application documents from 2001.
I will be sharing three of them below.
If you are experiencing setbacks on your path to becoming a physician assistant, I want you to know that this is a normal part of the process.
Do not be discouraged: failure met with perseverance, is the key to long-term, sustainable success.
My PA School Rejection Letter #1 (Ouch!)
To help you reach your goals, it is important that you see my failures along with my successes.
Otherwise, you will be fooled into believing that success is a simple, pain-free process when in reality the path to each of my successes has been lined with the roadkill of my many epic failures.
Whether it is God or otherwise, how we perceive a setback matters! (Listen 25 minutes)
This week, I won two free tickets as part of my daughter's kindergarten raffle to see James Durbin, an American Idol "outcast," play here on our shared hometown stage in Santa Cruz, California.
Although I am not that familiar with all of James' music, last night as he stood on stage, I realized just how much I respected this 25-year-old rocker.
Knowing all the public criticism he had to endure during his time on the Idol stage, the sting of being "voted off" and rejected by his peers, not to mention the many obstacles he had to overcome in a lifelong battle with Tourette's and Asperger's syndrome.
Last night, he spoke to the sold-out crowd (many of whom were young, screaming teenage girls) and divulged his story of how his pediatrician told his parents to keep their expectations low. Just goes to show what you can do with a dream and a whole lot of grit.
Don't even get me started on the Olympics!
It may sound cliché to say that we learn more from our failures than from our successes, but nevertheless, this is true.
Because life is a process of trial and error, and error, and even more error until finally you succeed!
The key is to hang in there long enough, don't give up with the struggling masses, there is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how dim and distant it may seem.
PA Rejection Letter #2 (You're Killing Me)
So, success is simply the result of a long series of epic failures if you have done things right.
Reading the above rejection letter so many years later I am almost embarrassed to admit that I didn't have a 3.0 GPA, but there is a backstory not written on this rejection letter. This proves the point that an isolated number outside of any context is just a point along a curve that when seen alone is useless.
Don't become a point on a curve. The trend is what matters! In what direction are you trending?
And just when you thought the pain and suffering couldn't go on . . .
My Rejection Letter to the National Health Service Corps (The kick in my proverbial balls)
Yes, I was even rejected by the National Health Service Corps the first time I applied. Although not the second . . .
And yes, I received even another rejection letter from OHSU, but I must have thrown that one into the fire.
My Acceptance Letter to PA School
At first, it seemed odd to me that among this stack of failed attempts I could not find my acceptance letter into PA school.
I remember it so well, that simple single sheet of white paper with red and black ink letterhead, about four sentences long sporting an official UMDNJ seal.
I read it in the rain, on a cold Seattle evening by streetlight, heart beating, exhausted after a long day of work. The feeling of nausea rose to my chest as I held the two corners of that letter, and I said a short prayer before I tore it open.
I made a promise to God and myself that if this dream came true, I would use my training always to relieve the suffering of others and to make the world a better place.
Spoiler alert I was accepted, and I am still working hard to keep my promise.
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My Message to You
If you have received a rejection letter fear not my fellow epic failures, I to have stood demoralized in your shoes.
But do not let that define you, let it guide you, let it be the roadkill that you can look back upon with pride years later when you are writing a blog post hanging out your dirty underwear with pride for all the world to see.
Here are my rejection letters. I am posting them as a reminder of what should make you stronger. I saved them because they are a source of motivation, and I hope they can provide you with some peace of mind as well.
If you can learn to see adversity as a tool to help you reach your goals, you can turn a "setback" into a "set up" for something wonderful.
Thank you for reading, and I wish you the best wherever you may be on your journey to PA-C.
- Stephen Pasquini PA-C
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who is the pastor you have recorded in this article. I would love to hear more from him.
thank you so much for all these amazing articles and inspiration,
Kye
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Stephen
As I sit in my office chair, I’m reading your post and letters of rejection and I have to say thank you for sharing these. I’m in the process of applying and although I haven’t received a rejection letter as of yet, the reality of that happening is already getting me down. Thank you for your encouragement that this isn’t the end of the road.
Thank you, Dina! I’m glad to know my series of rejections have been good for more than just building my own character :-). Hang in there, keep your head up and if you keep on working hard with a kind and wide-open heart… good things will come!!!
Stephen
Hi Stephen,
Thank you for this very encouraging article. I am in my junior year as a nutrition major, and have plans to become a Registered Dietitian. However, I have recently been considering PA school due to a desire to have broader medical knowledge, especially as I have a strong interest in serving as a medical missionary in the future.
I have to admit that I am scared to death about acceptance to PA schools, especially after reading through all of these comments from people (many of whom have years of experience) being rejected multiple times. I have a 3.83 overall GPA and 3.77 science GPA; I also have a great deal of volunteer experience with people of diverse backgrounds and cultures, including experience at a non-profit clinic. If I decide to make this switch to the PA route, I will need to get going very quickly on accruing clinical hours, probably through phlebotomy like you did (as well as continued medical volunteerism). I am very driven and mature, and I have a deep love for medical science and serving those in need. In fact, I can’t picture myself in a career that doesn’t include these things! Given this admittedly condensed synopsis of me and my strenghts/weaknesses, do you think that I have the makings of a competitive applicant (my lacking clinical hours, bachelors degree, and GRE score notwithstanding, of course)? Also, what would be your best advice for me going forward?
Thank you SO much for your time and sharing your journey to the PA life!